"This was another tricky part of being Dina's sister, of being anyone's sibling, probably.  Comparison is built into your very existense.  Someone is always the Smart One.  The Talented One.  The Funny One.  You can't both be fast, one of you has to be faster - The Fast One.  Even if someone else isn't passing judgement, you're making the comparisons on your own."
-Voice Lessons by Cara Mentzel